Have you watched too many movies and TV shows that have influenced your expectations of college and college life? Due to Hollywood’s exaggerated portrayal of college life, many students are overwhelmed when entering college. However, the college experience is often far different from all these myths and misconceptions floating around. 

Among many, here are some college myths debunked: 

Myth: “You must know what you want to do with the rest of your life.” 

Reality: You figure things out along the way. 

One massive misconception about college is that everyone knows what they are doing with their lives, and that is simply not true. College exposes you to a wide range of individuals, disciplines, and opportunities. What college is, instead, is a place where you get to explore your interests, take classes from multidisciplinary subject matters, and modify and build your aspirations along the way. Cornell offers a plethora of interesting courses; you never know what might grab your interest! 

Myth: “College is one big party!” 

Reality: College is whatever you want it to be. 

Of course, we have all witnessed TV shows and movies that portray college as a party hotspot where students are compelled to engage in the party culture. Worried? Don’t be — because this isn’t true either. While parties and social events are popular places to meet people and make friends, they don’t define the college experience. At an Ivy League institution like Cornell, students are academically driven and motivated. Our beautiful libraries are full of hard-working students. They are also involved in various extracurricular activities, professional clubs, and Greek Life. In a large school like Cornell, I can assure you, it is very convenient to find something you like! 

Myth: “College students are always stressed.” 

Reality: College can be challenging, but help is readily available. 

It is true — college can be a little overwhelming. Juggling academics, extracurriculars, and a social life is not easy. However, what is not true is that college students are constantly stressed. Professors and faculty are often very understanding regarding extensions and absences for valid reasons. Cornell offers a wide variety of resources to support students’ mental health and social well-being. Cornell Health, along with organizations like EARS (Empathy, Assistance & Referral Service), provide counseling and other mental health care. Furthermore, events like concerts, games, and workshops happening all around campus can help to relieve academic stress. 

There are many myths and misconceptions that might shape your expectations of college. It is important to understand that college is different for everyone, and that you shape your college experience as much as your college experience shapes you.